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This Week in Networking!

Events, Bad Linkedin Headlines and my 8 Week Step-Up Plan for Introverts!šŸ”„

Hey, itā€™s Chelsey.

Hopefully, you didnā€™t celebrate Thanksgiving for the entire week leading up to it like I did. Besides stuffing my face with a bunch of carbs, I actually got to spend a lot of quality time with the fam and took a nice little break from Linkedin. If Iā€™m being honest, after last weeks deep dive into the algorithm, I needed a break. šŸ¤– But, the show must go on so Iā€™ll be posting this week.

As for BLKBOOK eventsā€”yes, weā€™ve slowed down, but I promise, weā€™re cooking up something real nice!šŸ‘Œ Stay tuned.

Hereā€™s whatā€™s on the menu for today:

  • 9 Net-fests you might be interested in this week.

  • Please šŸ™ answer the POLL so I know what events to set up next.

  • My 8 week step-up plan for introverts who want to start networking šŸ”„

  • Share your networking success story and get featured šŸŒŸ

  • Some interesting news including 50% of Linkedin posts being AI-generated šŸ‘€

  • How I can help you grow šŸš€

Events This Week!šŸ‘‡

šŸ“Œ Tuesday December 3

šŸ“Œ Wednesday December 4

šŸ“Œ Thursday December 5

šŸ“Œ Friday December 6

šŸ“Œ Saturday December 7

 šŸ™ƒ Networking: A Step-Up Plan for Introverts

Letā€™s be honestā€”networking can feel like speed dating, but instead of looking for love, youā€™re hoping someone will hire you or invest in your business. Awkward? If the thought of walking into a room full of strangers makes you want to hide under a blanket, donā€™t worryā€”youā€™re not alone. This step-by-step plan is designed to help you ease into networking over 8 weeks, with manageable daily and weekly tasks that build confidence, create opportunities, and foster lasting relationships.

So, Whatā€™s the Plan? 

  • Timeline: 8 weeks to turn networking from ā€œughā€ to ā€œIā€™ve got this.ā€

  • Time Commitment: Just 10ā€“15 minutes a day or 1ā€“3 hours per week (thatā€™s less than your Netflix time, letā€™s be real).

  • The Goal: Build real, meaningful connections at your own paceā€”and actually enjoy the process.

Why itā€™ll Work

  • No Fake Smiles Required: Start small by engaging online and picking events where awkward silence isnā€™t an option.

  • Low Pressure, Big Payoff: Learn how to use structured events and one-on-one chats to make connections that actually matter.

  • Create a System That Sticks: Develop sustainable habits so you can grow your network without sacrificing your sanity (or Netflix binges).

By the end of it, youā€™ll go from ā€œplease donā€™t make me talk to peopleā€ to confidently building relationships that open doors. So, letā€™s get into it!

Step 1: Start Small & Build Confidence (Week 1)

Diving headfirst into networking can feel overwhelming. Starting small helps you dip your toes into the water instead of belly-flopping into a sea of anxiety.

Time Commitment: 10ā€“15 minutes/day (1ā€“2 hours total for the week)

Daily Tasks: 

  • Spend 10 minutes updating your LinkedIn and engaging with posts.

Goal: Connect with 5ā€“10 people online and comment on 2ā€“3 posts.

Step 2: Join Low-Pressure Networking Events (Weeks 2-3) 

Big, crowded networking events are a nightmare for introverts. Virtual or small-scale events let you practice in a structured, non-threatening environment. Think of it as networking with training wheels.

Time Commitment: 2ā€“3 hours/week (including prep and event attendance)

Weekly Tasks:

  • Find and register for 1ā€“2 virtual networking events.

  • Spend 30 minutes preparing your intro pitch and researching attendees or topics.

  • Attend the event (1ā€“1.5 hours per event).

  • Write down names and notes on 5 key connections.

Goal: Attend 2 events and meet at least 5 people per event.

Step 3: Follow Up and Go 1-on-1 (Weeks 4-5) 

The magic happens after the event. Building relationships comes from following up and having meaningful conversationsā€”not just collecting names like PokĆ©mon cards.

Time Commitment: 1ā€“1.5 hours/week

Weekly Tasks:

  • Spend 30 minutes drafting and sending follow-up messages to your connections.

  • Schedule 2ā€“3 virtual coffee chats (15ā€“20 minutes each).

  • Take notes on each conversation for your tracker.

Goal: Have 3ā€“5 one-on-one conversations.

Step 4: Start Giving Back (Weeks 6-7)

People remember the ones who help, not the ones who just ask. Offering value without expecting anything in return builds genuine goodwillā€”and makes networking feel less transactional.

Time Commitment: 1 hour/week

Weekly Tasks:

  • Post 1 helpful or interesting article or tip on LinkedIn (15 minutes).

  • Engage with posts from your network (15ā€“20 minutes).

  • Look for opportunities to offer value, such as making an introduction or sharing a resource (30 minutes).

Goal: Make 1 helpful introduction and share 2ā€“3 valuable pieces of content.

Step 5: Reflect, Refine & Scale Up (Week 8+)

Networking isnā€™t about going viralā€”itā€™s about steady, meaningful progress. Regularly reflecting on whatā€™s working (and what isnā€™t) keeps your efforts focused and rewarding.

Time Commitment: 1 hour total for Week 8; ongoing commitment depends on goals.

Tasks:

  • Review your tracker and assess your progress (30 minutes).

  • Adjust your goals based on what worked.

  • Set a new target, such as attending a larger event or hosting your own networking session.

Goal: Create an ongoing habit of networking that feels sustainable.

Weekly Time Commitment Summary

Weeks 1ā€“3: ~2ā€“3 hours/week (mostly attending events and prep).

Weeks 4ā€“5: ~1ā€“1.5 hours/week (focus on follow-ups and 1:1 chats).

Weeks 6ā€“7: ~1 hour/week (adding value and staying active).

Week 8: ~1 hour (reflect and set new goals).

By committing 1ā€“3 hours per week, youā€™ll steadily build a strong, meaningful network without sacrificing your energy or comfort. Ready to give it a try? šŸ˜Š

Hereā€™s a networking tracker to help you keep track. Feel free to download it or make a copy.

If youā€™d like to hear my personal story on how I went from being an introvert to wellā€¦letā€™s just say more ā€œcomfortable with the processā€, follow me on Linkedin. Iā€™ll be publishing that article this week!

Just for Fun šŸ˜‚

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Share your Networking Success Story! šŸŒŸ

Did someone in your network hook you up with your dream job, land you that big client, or make the intro that changed everything? We want the juicy details!

Weā€™re on the hunt for inspiring, funny, or downright surprising stories about how networking opened doors and catapulted you to success. Think of it as your chance to bragā€”humbly, of course. šŸ˜‰

Whatā€™s in it for you?
āœ”ļø Showcase your story to a professional audience.
āœ”ļø Build your personal brand and credibility.
āœ”ļø Inspire others to invest in their networking efforts.
āœ”ļø Free BLKBOOK event ticket.

How to Apply?
ā€¢ Share a brief overview of your story.
ā€¢ Include how your network played a key role.
ā€¢ Submit your story here.

Weā€™ll feature select stories in our newsletter and upcoming events. This is your chance to highlight the connections that made a difference and inspire others to start building their own.

Donā€™t be shyā€”your story could inspire someone else to make their next big move (and letā€™s be honest, we all love a good success story). šŸš€

News You Can Actually Use šŸ“°

šŸ‘‚ Linkedin Kills Live Audio Events-Because No One Cared
LinkedIn quietly axed its live audio events feature, and honestly...did anyone even notice? Looks like the platformā€™s attempt to copy Clubhouse was a flop. RIP.

šŸ™ Gratitude Posts on LinkedIn: Genuine Connection or Corporate Cringe?
LinkedIn is suddenly the gratitude capital of the internet, with everyone saying ā€œthanksā€ louder than ever. Is it a heartwarming trend or just another sneaky flex? Either way, if you havenā€™t jumped on the thank-you train, you might be missing out.

šŸ‘¶ Parenting + Networking: Finally, a Match Made in Nap Time
Seattle tech leader Jennifer Wong launches a networking app just for parents of young kids. Because who better to brainstorm big ideas with than someone who also knows the pain of stepping on a LEGO?

šŸ‘©ā€šŸ« Gen Z Would Rather Have Mentors Than Money (No, Really)
According to a new survey, Gen Z would rather have career growth and mentorship than fat salaries. Bold move for a generation also known for $10 lattes.

šŸ©ŗ Paging Dr. LinkedIn: This Doc Just Launched a Network for Healthcare Pros
Forget LinkedInā€”Dr. Chandrika Kambam built Anastomos, a platform just for medical pros. Need a mentor, a job, or a career check-up? This siteā€™s got you coveredā€”no copay required.

āœļø More Than 50% of All Lengthy Linkedin Posts are AI Generated
Turns out, no one is reading your epic 3,000-word LinkedIn posts. Over half of long-form content gets ignored entirely, and LinkedIn posts are no exception. If youā€™re not grabbing attention fast, your ā€œinsightfulā€ masterpiece might just be a scroll-past casualty.

How I Can Help You Grow šŸš€

  1. Hire me as your Fractional CMO. Not only can I help develop your growth strategy, align marketing and sales teams, and develop customer journey maps, I can also create and execute high-impact campaigns, audit your tech stack and make sure youā€™re leveraging the right data to measure success.

  2. Generate Leads through BLKBOOK Events. When you sponsor an industry-specific virtual speed networking event, I handle the outreach and set up targeted campaigns to get your ideal customers to show up. Then, you can hand-pick who you want to meet face-to-face with.

  3. Earn Commission & Shared Revenue. Want to attend BLKBOOK events for free and get paid? Become an affiliate and start earning commissions on ticket sales and sponsorship referrals.

  4. Hire me as your Virtual Event Consultant. From a small half day summit to a full 5 day conference, Iā€™ve organized, managed and produced a variety of virtual events. I can help with sourcing speakers, running tech checks, marketing and even hiring additional production assistants.

Interested in working together? Letā€™s connect!šŸ‘‡